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Alissa's avatar

Thanks for sharing this Christene. I’d love to hear more about how this period has affected your attitude towards spending, saving and budgeting in the years afterwards and even up to now. I’ve been thinking a lot about our relationships with money, as people who enjoy lovely things (and hunting for them, and acquiring them!). For me, much as I wish it wasn’t the case, jt seems the acquisition of items is tied up with the notion of “creativity” as it relates to identity. I’ve paused on spending for a period of time in an attempt to try and tease apart “buying/ consuming” from “living a creative life.” As I contemplate what my future life as a shopper could look like, I’m fascinated by hearing about peoples’ journeys towards reconciling a love for fashion/ interior design with fiscal responsibility. Does it all come down to simply allotting a set amount monthly to spend on objects we love? In other words, budgeting? Any and all comments and insights would be most welcome!

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Penny's avatar

Oh, I enjoyed this read. A little before covid my husband and I lost some money ...and then covid made it much worse! It was a tough time. I felt like we were failures and it was incredibly stressful. We lived with my parents for a little and then got stuck during covid. Like you, it was wonderful to spend that time as an adult with my parents. My father unexpectedly died in January and now I look back at that time as a weird gift from the universe and a lesson that money isn’t everything.

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